I met Brian in 1980 in Lacombe, when he came to what is now Burman University as campus chaplain. Our friendship is nearing 40 years. Brian’s dedication to the spiritual direction of young people was truly amazing. He sacrificed tremendous amounts of time with his young family so hundreds of young people’s lives could be impacted. Soon, though, I was introduced to his family. He and I became closer and started working together on numerous community, church and university fundraising activities.
Our biggest venture was starting A Better World together. In 1990 we came up with the idea to engage students and the church in making a difference in the world. We had never attempted anything like it, and we had no idea it would end up what it is today.
My famous words to Brian were “What do you think of this idea?” After 40 years I still consult with him using that same question. His famous words to me have become “Measure twice cut once.” His words reflect his way of balancing my enthusiasm with realism. (I have also understood this to mean think twice, listen twice, speak once!) And I learned from him to stick it out even when things got tough.
Another coincidence that drew us together was the fact that both our birthdays are in January, just two days apart. We celebrated together for years, although we can’t do that as often now that he winters in Arizona. Starting our first project with A Better World was part of our celebration in 1990. It is fitting for me to write about Brian here in Kendu Bay, Kenya, the site of that first project, and on the 30th Anniversary of A Better World. I thank him for many years of friendship and influence in my life.
Eric Rajah 